me being pessimistic
Some people say that one should be optimistic and focus on the positive things that can come from negative events.
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I guess things like that are easier said than done. After all, how can someone not in any predicament be able to quantify the feeling of thinking positive when everything around him points the opposite way?
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I used ot be like that. Or rather i always took effort to look at things positively, if not, then fully ignore the negative aspects entirely.
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Apparently, ignoring negativity doesn’t really make it go away, because in the back of your mind those negative thoughts are incubating waiting for the right time too burst and infect you with greater force than when it was first conceptualized.
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Negative thoughts have a way of staying benign and then one day becoming active, just when you thought you were safe.
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Maybe, being pessimistic is better. At least, you won’t have the additional pain of failure, because in your heart, you already failed.
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Wasak ka na noon pa, kung alam mo nang di ka na mabubuo ulit, bakit mo pa pipiliting pagdikit-dikitin and sarili mo diba?
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Mas maganda siguro kung tinaggap mo na, sa gayon, mas madali kang makaka-move-on patungo sa mga bagay na mas importante.
