trust
I was about to disconnect from the net when a recent e-mail about a blog entry caught my attention.
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I’ve nothing gainst what was said in that blog, and I’m ok with whatever opinion that that person has. This is a disclaimer in a wy, I am not commenting on that person’s blog, these are just thoughts that passed my mind while reading the entries.
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Trust is something that is hard to earn. You’d have to have one hell of a friend to be able to realease all of your insecurities and your secrets. That type of friend is really impossible to have, but it can be approached, just like infinity.
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I believe that a person who cannot trust anybody shouldn’t be trusted as well. A person without enough confidence to confide the truth to someone in person will be hard put to confide the full truth when he/she is asked to, especially if it comes to sensitive matters.
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Last Tuesday, two and I spent the afternoon together, at a coffeeshop in Katipunan, and then ended up doing videoke at the other’s place that same evening. The great thing was, even if there weren’t any alcoholic drinks to induce confessions, there were still some, actually a lot. Hehehe. And I never felt any restrictions that night. Everything was laid down, and the fun thing was, there was no judging going on, at least on my part. Just plain confessions.
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I read once in a mgzine that it’s good to hve someone or something to confide in. A personw ould be better, but a journl would do. which is why I have this.
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It makes me woner. What if I didn’t have those two confidants. Asan na kaya ako ngayon? Maybe 6 feet under the ground, or somewhere lost and crazy.
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Basta, I’m glad I could trust someone with my deepest darkest secrets. True friends are hard to find, but you won’t have them if you don’t look for them.
October 3rd, 2006 at 5:43 am
hmmm… parang nasesense ko kung kaninong blog entry yan…